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by blacksheep63 @ Friday, Jan. 11, 2008 - 20:52:02

seems i was a little premature in celebrating my friend's recovery from her op. they removed a growth which turns out to have been cancerous - another long round of treatment is required, which is how she's spent 12 of the last 18 months. she thought that was all over and was really enjoying her hair growing back enough to do things with it. her man was looking forward to having his woman back after looking after and supporting her for nearly two years of worry, pain and frustration. she is 31, full of life, cares about everyone else more than herself, and is incredibly brave. its not fair. i never have managed to believe in god and things like this convince me that no god exists. if any of you do believe then say a prayer for her, thank you.

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Not-HerneschaseNot-Herneschase [Member]
2008-01-12 @ 07:45

It was cancer that made me have my first doubts about Himself when my Uncle was diagnosed and I was 19. It is a cruel, cruel illness and it always seems to hit the wrong people. I will try positive thinking for you, whether that is God related I never know but it makes me feel I am doing something.

So sorry to hear that, medear. Wishing her a speedy recovery.

x

thespianthespian pro
2008-01-12 @ 11:50

It isn't fair.
I wish her and her man the strength to get through it.
For the rest of us, I suppose it should remind us to value each healthy day.

EllieGantEllieGant pro
2008-01-12 @ 12:29

How dreadful - it's bad enough going through it the first time. It completely changes your life. I can't imagine how she feels having to start again. I hope it gets sorted this time.

whatdidyoudotodaywhatdidyoudotoday [Member]
2008-01-18 @ 11:10

SHe sounds like a strong woman and with friends like you, I am sure she will find the extra strength she needs. These things always happen to the WRONG people. Everything around us effects the way we live our lives, and I am sure she is in your life for a reason. You will help her I am sure of that. Two of my friends and my father are fighting cancer at the moment. My dad is full of anger and resentment and he is eating himself from the inside out. My first friend is going through treatment and is fighting it with all her humour. SHe is an angel in disguise, I am sure of that. SHe is a wonderful woman and I am proud to know her. My other friend has decided to refuse treatment now as she wants to spend the rest of her life with her children symptom free from treatment. What can you say? Life is cruel.

With the grace of God go any of us!

x

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